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Some sort of registry is a must for every engaged couple, whether you want to go the traditional route or shake it up with a honeymoon, experiential, or hobby-based version. But after you add all the gifts to your wedding wishlist, how are you supposed to spread the news to your nearest and dearest without seeming too, go maith, greedy? Like most wedding-related matters, the answer to this question comes with its own set of rules and etiquette. But with our little list of dos and don’ts, sharing your registry will be a piece of cake.
Do include information on your bridal shower invitations. Chances are, you’re not throwing your own shower, so having if the host adds a link or note to the invitation, it’s totally fine. While a bride or groom asking for gifts directly can be taken as a little rude, your mom, aintín, or bestie can feel free to spread the word on your behalf. Agus, because bridal showers are actually all about the gift giving anyway (ribbon bouquets and hats have to be made from rud éigin, tar éis gach rud), guests will want and need to know what you’d like to receive.
Don’t post a Facebook status with links to your registry. While this might make it easy for some people to find your registry, don’t forget that you (probably) haven’t invited every single one of your Facebook friends to your wedding. Móide, it could cross the line into “greedy” territory. Posting a link to your wedding website — which should have easy-to-find registry links — is totally okay, cé, as is texting or emailing the info to interested parties. Just make the effort to say something like, “But please know that your presence at the wedding and kind words are more than enough!” to soften the request.
Do include a registry page on your wedding website. Probably the best thing about the new age invention of wedding websites is the opportunity to share your registry information without seeming all “gimme gimme.” Include links to the online stores so guests can access them easily and choose their gifts without too much of a hassle. Just be careful with the language you use to introduce your loved ones to the page: Bain triail as rud éigin cosúil le “Más mian leat bronntanas a thabhairt don bhrídeog agus don groom…” le cinntiú go bhfuil a fhios ag d’aíonna gur rogha é bronntanas a thabhairt.
Ná cuir do shuíomh Gréasáin bainise ar do shábháil ar an dáta. Cé nach gá duit a rá, “Hey, táimid cláraithe ag Sprioc!” ar an dáta a shábháil, is féidir leis an bhfógra a bheith ina bhealach maith chun an scéal a scaipeadh faoi do shuíomh Gréasáin. Gach duine cuireadh chun na bainise (fiú mura bhfuil siad in ann teacht ar an gceiliúradh) gheobhaidh siad an t-eolas sin agus beidh siad in ann na sonraí a dhéanamh amach dóibh féin más mian leo rud éigin a cheannach duit in onóir do bainise.
Ná cuir d’fhaisnéis clárlainne ar do chuireadh bainise. Déan cinnte láithreán gréasáin na bainise sin a chur isteach áit éigin ar an gcuireadh, ach níor cheart go luafaí go díreach bronntanais ar do chuireadh ar chor ar bith — fiú mura bhfuil aon bhronntanais á lorg agat. (Agus cinnte nach bhfuil a iarraidh ar airgead tirim in ionad bronntanais!) Cuimhnigh, bronntanais atá riamh a bheith ag teastáil; má chuireann tú eolas ar bhronntanais ar an gcuireadh, d’fhéadfaí an teachtaireacht mhícheart a sheoladh chuig d’aíonna agus cuir orthu smaoineamh go bhfuil tú ag súil leo bronntanas a thabhairt leat seachas a láithreacht — ní bréige fionnuar nó gleoite é a thabhairt., fiú mar bride-to-be.
Bí ag brath ar bhriathar béil na sean-scoile chun an focal a scaipeadh. Ar ais sula raibh láithreáin ghréasáin bainise rud, d'fhoghlaim aíonna faoi chlárlanna trí cheist a chur ar theaghlach an bhrídeog nó an groom, VIPanna, agus freastalaithe. Agus níor cheart go bhfaigheadh traidisiúin áirithe bás - mar sin bí cinnte na sonraí a roinnt le do neasteaghlach, bréidín, agus groomsmen, agus cuir in iúl dóibh gur féidir leo an focal a scaipeadh ar do shon.
—Kristin Doherty
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